You Control Your Experiences!

Many people are interested in Law of Attraction because their lives or their careers could use a little enhancing. You might have come to a crossroads where you need to decide whether to commit to winning at the game of life, or to taking it easy and having a good time, but never amounting to much, and so you think, hmmm, perhaps some coaching would help. Perhaps you are considering marriage. Perhaps you are considering graduate school. Sometimes we just have a moment of clarity while we’re watching TV with friends for the umpteenth night in a row. You might wonder what you are doing with your life. Perhaps some Law of Attraction coaching would help….

It made me laugh, although sadly, because it is so true. So many people lose out because they spend their lives blaming their parents or their circumstances. There is a certain satisfaction in it I suppose, and perhaps they gain some sympathy from friends, but they don’t gain respect from their peers, and they won’t ever have the respect of even those who love them if they can’t take responsibility for their own fate.

So, let’s take responsibility for our own attitudes. Let’s take a look at some pointers.

The problem with so many people today is that they have either been programmed with or have developed a negative mental attitude. In fact, what you have become and where you are in your present life can all be traced back to a first cause: the choices you made as a result of your dominating thoughts and attitude.

This is the Law of Attraction coaching. James Arthur Ray often talks about this in his books and trainings. He says that if you show him your checkbook and your home, he will be able to tell you what you have been thinking about…. This too is the Law of Attraction, and Law of Attraction coaching. What you think about, comes about.

So if your life feels like a runaway train, there is a very good reason. The thoughts that have gone on inside your mind have finally materialized on the outside, forming the particulars of the life you are now experiencing.

Simply put, if you have a negative mental attitude you cannot produce a satisfying life! Most people are busy trying to either change their circumstances or other people to make their life more comfortable and rewarding. But the problem is within. You may attain a college degree; surround yourself with influential friends; or enjoy a famous family name. But if your mind is filled with negative thoughts and a flawed attitude those attainments or advantages will not produce the success and happiness you seek.

Hey, this isn’t fair! You make the investment in college, just as you are told, and you go to the “right” school that enables you to meet the people who will help you in your future. Isn’t that what we are told to do? This is not enough if you take into consideration the Law of Attraction. Law of Attraction coaching will direct you to attend to your business in thought and dreams, as well as in action. Wallace Wattles points out that if you are trying to cheat your customer, or if you are merely trying to beat your competition, you will not prevail in the long run. It is necessary to give your customer a fair service for their payment, and to work your own business and your own dream without consideration of your competition. There is more than enough for everyone. This too is Law of Attraction coaching.  It might help to think of your mind as the software in a computer. If your software or mind is full of doubt, fear, and “can’t do,” then no matter how hard you try, you’re only going to produce a product or a life that replicates those negative beliefs. In other words, if I closely observe your life, I have an incredibly accurate picture of what you have been thinking!

I’m sure we’ve all heard stories about people who grew up in less than desirable situations; some may even have been abused or abandoned. And yet they found a way to overcome, to put themselves in the record book in many instances. What did they do? They put themselves through a complete attitude overhaul! They changed the data in their software, developed an ‘I-will-not- be-denied’ attitude and as a result, they produced a different life.

We often think that we want something in particular, such as a particular car or home or boat, but what we really desire is the ability to play, or freedom or love. It is most important that you determine your ultimate heart’s desire before you start to visualize.

What is it You Desire?

Perhaps you desire the freedom to play but are 70 pounds overweight and are tired all the time. Have you noticed that those teachers of the Law of Attraction in the movie The Secret look pretty fit? Joe Vitale is the notable exception, but he talks about his struggles with weight so he is not ignoring it.

But, this is key. If you want to be able to play with the same freedom you had as a child, you will first get back to a normal weight. This doesn’t cost anything if you simply stop shopping from the inside aisles of the super market, buy only whole foods and eat five times a day rather than three.

Perhaps you want financial freedom, but spend everything that you make. Cut up the credit cards before you begin to visualize anything. Using credit and paying the minimum fee will increase the cost of everything that you buy. A $20 meal will cost you $100 by the time you have paid it off. So, throw them away and your money will go farther.

Get more sleep up to 8 hours/day if you now sleep less than 6 hours a day. Arianna Huffington posted recently that simply by sleeping more she was able to increase the weight of the weights she used (showing an increase in muscle strength) and she lost more weight. Her vitality increased in spite of the increase in her physical workout. She was able to get more done during the day with more enjoyment.

Spend quiet time by yourself. Most Law of Attraction teachers use meditation, but if you pay attention before you go to sleep and after you wake up it will accomplish much. You can ask your higher mind/intuition for advice or inspiration before you go to sleep, and expect an answer either during the night or the next day. Listen up. You will always get an answer.

There are Five Pillars of Abundance

The five pillars of abundance are:

1. Physical
2. Social
3. Intellectual
4. Spiritual
5. Financial

Most students of the Law of Attraction start with their financial pillar, but as James Arthur Ray says, you have to be a bigger person to have the frequency of a millionaire than you do to be a middle class earner. This is why so many lottery winners lose their money in the first year.

So, start by becoming a bigger person. Start with the other areas of your life that are more in your control. Become physically fitter by moving your body each day. Eat better and drink more water. Begin to study by reading at least 10 pages per day of some non-fiction book in an area of interest to you.

Spend some time developing your spiritual, higher mind. Either take up meditating or remote viewing. Decrease your anger and frustration and increase your understanding of others and your commitment to help. Use the Sedona Method, or Byron Katie’s Work or Ho’oponopono. Any of these will change your attitude and outlook on life.

When you enjoy your life more, you will increase your financial abundance naturally.

© 2010, Jeasy. All rights reserved.

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6802 Responseshttp://abundance.cr8.co.nz/2010/03/you-control-your-experiences/You+Control+Your+Experiences%212010-03-04+01%3A46%3A29Jeasy to “You Control Your Experiences!”

1. P.A.R.E says:

   March 8, 2010 at 2:46 pm

   This is amazing. I am absolutely in awe of what I have read. I Believe that We Control Our Experiences. Good One Mate!

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2. Paula Atkins says:

   March 4, 2010 at 2:03 pm

   I strongly agree on this! The more we enjoy life the more our financial abundance increase naturally. It is good to develop our good outlook in life. As what they say what you think is what you get. Always be positive and you will attract all the positive things in life. Just like in business, just think of all positive opportunity and it will just come natural, such as credit software. It has a lot of opportunity during this economic times. Keep positive as always

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